Following the success of 20 speaking tips from Darren La Croix, I'm capturing the important points from my notes at Ovation 2011:
- Good luck is when preparedness meets opportunity
- Breathe life into your speech, bring the audience to you, build a message that stays
- Essence of public speaking is "Tell a Story" & then "Make a Point"
- Average leaders place blame, exceptional leaders take it
- Master what you measure
- Change small, change soften
- Your foundational phrase (a phrase that summarizes the essence of your speech) should be less than 10 words
- If you can write your message at the back of a business card, only then it can be crystal clear to the audience
- "No phrase, no stage" - Without a foundational phrase, don't take your message/story to the stage
- "What you say is not always what they hear" - You should take the accountability for both the sides of the communication.
- Speaking is all about making the audience wait...
- You are always #1 in what you haven't done
- Speak to one, but look at all. For example, instead of asking "How many of you have been to the US", ask "Have you been to the US"?. Instead of saying "Some of you may be thinking"... say "Now you might be thinking".
- Make a move on the stage only for 2 reasons - the action in your story prompts movement on the stage (or) you want to indicate the timeline of events
- Check the VAKS - Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic and Small in your story
- Don't tell, ask
- Tap & Transport - Tap into the audience' world and transport them to your world
- Never be the HERO of your OWN story
- Speakers should pay attention to SOFTEN - Smiling, (having an) Open posture and not sitting behind a desk, leaning Forward to signal interest, respecting the other's Territory (space, culture, physical comfort zone, etc.), maintaining non confrontational Eye contact, and Nodding to show show encouragment and active listening
- Too many speakers convey too much info in too little time. When you squeeze info IN, you squeeze audience OUT
- In a 10 minutes speech, you should have just 1 point
- Don't get ready, stay ready
- If I say it, they doubt it... If they say it, they believe it
- Specifics stick
- Public speaking is 1-on-1 enlarged
Also read: 10 leadership skills by DTM Ted Corcoran
Saro, Thanks for preserving this for us. :)
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